What a child means in life?

A child means alot in life and in this world and especially to the person giving it life. After those nine months of caring your baby you get the relief and happiness to give birth to your own baby. At first it will be hard because if it your first child you wouldn't know what to expect whether when to change the baby diaper, when it hungry, when its sick or when it has a rash.It gets so out of hands at the beginning because so much to handle and especially if you a single parent and don't have the support of your family. This will be a bumpy road at the beginning but having your little one by your side you wouldn't feel alone and would think all your problems are gone because just that little creature of life can bring much more then headaches but love, kindness, and affection to your world. It will be a life changing and turn around but why killed a living human whose heart is beating and who means much more then what you think. A child means basically because god created it and it was brought to this world for a purpose. A child means giving life to a new human being and a new member to the world who will have the opportunity to be someone in the future and reproduce in the near future.

Pro & Cons of giving birth instead of abortion

Getting pregnant and willing to keep your child is a big step. Its a hard decision to take but its way easier to keep your child then having to have an abortion. Getting an abortion is not an easy step or journey there's many risks and the biggest one is not being able to produce another child in the future because of your previous abortion. Having your mind to knowing you will keep your child is not an easy road but not a hard one. There's going to be doors closing but soon others will open. Having to give birth is something beautiful even though there's pros and cons. The pros of giving birth instead of getting an abortion are you are not emotionally or physically traumatize, you giving life to something beautiful, and less risk and complications when having an abortion. But it also has it cons like having to worry finding a baby sitter, being a single parent, financial status, and less going out with family and friends. But even though doors will close and wouldn't have as much fun as you would if you had an abortion you will have a child to filled those emptiness spaces that you have. A baby is a creation of god and created the same way you were and even though it wasn't planned or unwanted its better to take responsibility because it will pay in the long run. Abortion you go through an emotional and physical wreck and would always will stay marked for life. But having the pleasure to give give birth to a beautiful creation its a blessing and those pain of suffering you pay and healed way quicker then when having an abortion.

So, are you willing to go through abortion?

As coming to finalizing my final statements many of us still have thoughts on abortions or whether its the correct matter to take when having an unwanted pregnancy. Having an abortion later becomes an emotional roller coaster because you have anger, hate, and resentment against yourself having the guilt to kill a innocent living child. Despite all that there's risk and complications when going through the abortion procedure. Myself been in that position where I didn't looked at the consequences of my actions and killed an Innocent child. I didn't know nothing regarding what would be the risk or the complications of getting an abortion because I was so scared and trap in my own problem that I took a life away of a living human inside of me. I know see the wrong doing I did and going through an emotional roller coaster. I'm living day by day having the guilt and resentment of not standing up for the living life living inside me and not giving an opportunity to live. I personally would let young teens and even adults thinking about abortion to think twice because those are the worst time of your life where you see and feel a living human dieing minute by minute. I recommend taking in consideration adoption or even having the baby and raising because even though it wont be easy but it wont be to hard. If i had the support of a family and partner i wouldn't do what i did and think twice. But now I'm going to therapy to try to cure the emptiness and recommend this to many women who gone through what i have. Abortion is not an easy step is one of the hardest and scariest choices you would ever have to make. So if you don't want an unwanted pregnancy use "PROTECTION" and if your partner don't want to protect himself protect yourself.

How to prevent Unwanted Pregnacies & Abortions

There are many ways to prevent unwanted pregnancies and to this abortions. These unwanted child are being produced through careless people and unprotected sex. Many ways to prevent these hurtful situations are being abstinence, use of contraceptives, and latex condoms. These will help to prevent any unwanted pregnancies having so many babies being aborted but not only you prevent unwanted pregnancies but STD's. But the most safer way to prevent unwanted pregnancy and STD's is by using latex condoms. Many of our partners might not like the idea of using a condom because "it wont feel right" or "its very unconformable" but those are all lies. Its better to keep yourself and your partner safe then later on crying your regret. Having unprotected sex might be fun at the moment but stressful later on with the consequences of getting pregnant and cant raise a child at the moment. That's when abortion is the first thought to get out of this problem you in. But think if you have unprotected sex six times and out of those six times you have gotten pregnant and had an abortion it is not fair for all those lives your killing because they had no fault and they should have the opportunity to live the same way you did. If you don't want a child at the moment take precautions and keep in mind all the possible situations that can cause after your careless actions. Killing innocents babies because of unprotected sex is not fair for the life you are taking away because they have the same right to live like you did. Think about how will you feel if your mother got pregnant with you at a young age or couldn't afford you? But she choose to take responsibility of her actions.

What happens to the aborted baby?

Many people are aware that over a million babies a year are killed in the United States abortion clinics. And they don't know once a woman walks out from an abortion clinic, she leaves the unborn, dead body behind without knowing what the clinic do with it. Well the abortion clinic must dispose the dead body. Legally abortionist must treat aborted babies as medical waste. Others are put for experiment use, pieces are sold or burn. It is illegal for a doctor or nurse give care to an aborted baby. After the baby is within its five or six months and being abort it feels pain and since it fully grown just premature when taking out that alive baby is put aside without medical attention to die. So why commit abortion so close to giving life to a child, not knowing you are putting this child to suffer even when it two months but even more after three months. These innocent babies after being aborted are put to throw-away to disposal, burned or put to experimenting use. These unborn babies should have the right and opportunity to live and at least be born and then you have the option of putting it up for adoption or taking care of it yourself but now you don't feel resentment or guilt of having to kill a child who didn't have fault be thrown away after being taken out alive from there mother and being put aside to die on its own.

What led to to making abortion legalize in the United States?

As in the beginning of the blog abortion was legalize in the United States after Roe V Wade came to an end and made abortion freely and legal for anyone who is willing and want to have an abortion. If it wasn't for Roe v Wade then thousand of unborn child wouldn't die. Before Roe v Wade came to the Supreme Court it was illegal to get an abortion regarding the fact if you could raise a child or not. But after Roe won the case it became a woman free will to terminate a pregnancy at anytime they want. Many of these unwanted and unresponsible child who didn't have fault in an unwanted relationship thousands die everyday because of unresponsible people who take unprotected sex as a joke. All children should have the opportunity to live and not be thrown away because of careless mistake couples make. Getting an abortion becomes a hard part emotionally and physically for a women and a very hard step to take because either feeling afraid of something going wrong during the abortion procedure or being point at by society if found out you had an abortion. Getting an abortion becomes a long term curable act because your moral is down to the floor and many people giving there backs to you. Since Roe v Wade the abortion rate has gone up throughout the United States. Roe v Wade has made a big increase in abortions being perform each day throughout the United States so many innocent lives dieing each day because of this court case making abortion legalize.

Is there any other possible way instead of abortion?

Many women who experience unwanted pregnancy don't think and right away make the decision of getting an abortion. But instead of killing a living human growing inside you take in consideration Adoption. Many woman once they find out they are pregnant and don't want unwanted pregnancy the first word that come to mind is abortion and not thinking there's other way to save that babies life by putting it to adoption. If you cant take care of a baby or don't think you are not financial stable to raise a child the best way instead of killing it is giving it up for adoption so it can get the love and home it deserves by someone who really wants it. There's a difference between aborting and adoption. These are if you adopt you will be free to pursue your goals and dreams that you had before becoming pregnant, you will not have to carry with a baby before you are ready, you will not have the financial burden o0f caring for a child, you will not have to worry of finding a sitter or missing out on the fun with your family and friends. But if you abort there are many risks and complications and even though you wouldn't have to carry a child inside you womb for nine months its still a life you killed and many risks and complications you could have after having an abortion. So before saying "no" to adoption think about the life growing inside you that's living and the life you are taking away if you abort.

Do men also have an impact on abortion?

Many men are known to hide there feelings and emotions and since that's the case you wouldn't know if the men is hurt from seeing there partner killing there child. So we asked ourselves are men affected when abortion occurs. Yes, many men involved in abortion have said many problems occur after experiencing abortion. Including broken relationships, sexual dysfunction, substance abuse, self-hate, increase feeling grief over time, feelings of helplessness or guilt, depression, greater tendencies towards becoming angry and violent, and a sense of lost manhood. Many men who are in a relationship where there partner hide they are pregnant and later get an abortion becomes a devastating moment for men who don't believe in abortion or are willing to accept responsibility for the woman and the child on there way. These men who experience abortion become mad at themselves because knowing they would've prevent this by using protection didn't. Women as well as men have feelings and emotions and even when women show them more then men we all have a heart and feelings and emotions but other more then others. These men who go through this feel they didn't provide enough support to there partner, or if they wanted the baby and there partner didn't. This becomes hard because you wanted the child and she didn't and you might feel more lost then she does.

What is the impact of abortion on marriages?

Many of us will think abortion only happen with woman who are teens are are not married. But wrong abortion happens anytime, with anyone even with marriage couples. When abortion happens within a marriage couple it creates resentment, and anger between both spouse even more when abortion is kept as a secret in a marriage meaning since they keep a person from receiving or giving unconditional love. Most of these marriage abortion leads to domestic violence because since one spouse have so much anger and resentment towards the other it creates a rage towards on another. Since abortion tend to create feelings of anger, bitterness and resentment between partners and the woman who is self-destructive or suicidal, but scared to harm herself will get involve with a violent male. Since the woman feel worthless after getting an abortion most woman feel its okay to find herself in a domestic violence relationship with there spouse. They let the other person verbally, emotionally, and physically abuse them because they feel resentment, worthless or helplessness and finds the only way to punish themselves is letting the other partner use violence towards them. The most sad part is that so many abused woman stay in there abusive relationship. Many of these marriage who experience abortion and then to domestic violence will result in death of two or one. And if you don't seek for help early it will be to late to save yourself. Its better late then never.

Why Woman Have Abortions?

We asks ourselves why do women get abortions? Well it is said 70% of women who were ask this question said they feel its immoral but same percentage of them get them. But these women go through this pain of killing of living human because of many reasons. Some are because they choose against their conscience because of pressure from others and there circumstances. They chose abortion because of fear- fear of not being able to raise a child, fear of losing there partner if they don't have an abortion, fear of losing control of their lives and not being accepted in society. 80% of these woman's are teenagers between the ages of 14-18 or even younger. Abortion is not a true "choice" on the woman's part but an act of despair. Many women's who have an unwanted pregnancy and have an abortion have many reactions. Such as feeling of guilt, anxiety, shame, helplessness, or even rejection. Many of these woman's as said before choose abortion in an effort to save their relationship or "keep" a boyfriend from leaving. And many of these men threat to leave the women if they don't abort but most of these relationships never work after experiencing an abortion. For many couples, there may be resentment or anger if one of them only "went along with the abortion" to please the other. Women who feel they were not supported by their partner, or men whose partner aborted against there wishes, are especially likely to have problems coping with an abortion. Either one of both feel guilt or grief but are unwilling to share their feelings with the other because of the fear of upsetting them. This is more common on men because they tend to hid there emotions and this all leads up to a break-up of a couple.

Exactly When Can You Get an Abortion?

You may have the question like How early can I get Abortion? or Is there a waiting period before you can get an abortion? It is said Clinics and doctors vary on when you can get an abortion which is recommended five to six weeks after your last menstrual cycle. But it is performed at any time when doctors know its safe to do a procedure. Because of additional medical equipment and medicine needed the longer you wait the larger the cost. The earlier it is done the safer it is. In terms in how can you get an abortion procedure there's many possible ways to take in consideration when about to get an abortion only depending on how many weeks you are. Like doctors say its recommend to get an abortion the first seven weeks of your last menstrual cycle they will recommend "the pill" which is 96% effective. But if you are three months or more there's other more risky and difficult procedure doctors perform on the patient like the suction aspiration or dilation & curettage. These procedure are called surgical abortion because its done with medical tools. So if thinking of getting an abortion the sooner the better because less complications,less pain emotionally an physically, and maybe less risks factors. But before of thinking of an abortion think of the life you taking away and the living human living inside of you that you are going to kill.

Risks & Complications After An Abortion Procedure

As well as there side effects there are many risks and complications during and after an abortion. Some risks to keep in mind when pregnate and seeking to have an abortion are:
1. Etopic Pregnancies-which is basically when the sperm will be able to reach the egg in the tube. In which the baby will start growing inside your fallopian tube. If not decteted earyl and not remove it can cause burst of the tube and even death.
2. Sterilit- Since after having a surgical aboriton and maybe possible catching any infection the uterus is often scarred in which then the tiny sperm cannot reach the egg. Fertilization cannot occur. So it will be harder to have babies in the future.
3. Breast Cancer-Because of the rapid growth of breast tissue in early pregnancy,women who have first trimester abortions face twice the risk of contracting breast cancer as those who miscarry or complete their pregnancies and give birth.

As well as there risks to take in consideration when having an abortion there are also complications after an abortion. Many can be :
1. Heavy or persistent bleeding
2. Infection or sepsis
3. Damage to the cervix
4. Scarring of the uterine lining
5. Perforation of the uterus
6. Damage to other organs
7. Death
Although these complications are rare there are also possible and will probably occur 1 out of the 100 first trimester abortions and approximately 1 out of every 50 late term abortions.

Side Effects After Having An Abortion

After getting either a surgical abortion or medical abortion there can be many side effects and risks you can experience. These side effects are as follows:
1. Abdominal pain and cramping
2. Nausea
3. Vomiting
4. Diarrhea
5. Spotting and Bleeding

These side effects may vary woman to woman and is possible to have them for up to 2-4 weeks after the procedure. If your doctor prescribe any antibiotics to take it is very important to take them as said. Your period will return four to six weeks after your abortion is being performed and you can get easily pregnant right after the abortion that’s why it is very important you talk to your health provider about any birth control to prevent unwanted pregnancy again. Having to expect some of these side effects if they worsen for more then 24 hours you should seek medical help immediately.

The Most Common Abortion Procedure

The most common abortion procudure in the United States is the Abortion Pill also known as Mifepristone and Misoprostol, and or Methotrexate & Misoprostol which basically all mean the same the only difference is that Mifepristone is much more expensive and effective then the Methotrexate. This procedure can only be no later then 9 weeks of gestations. Throughout the United States most women seem to get this procudure other then Suction aspiration, Dilation and curettage etc. This procudure is requires three office visit after taking the first pill and done as follows:

1. Your health care provider will give you the abortion pill at the clinic. This means The abortion pill works by blocking the hormone progesterone. Without progesterone, the lining of the uterus breaks down, and pregnancy cannot continue.



2. You will take a second medicine,misoprostol at home . It causes the uterus to empty.You'll take the second medicine up to three days after taking the abortion pill. Your health care provider will give you instructions on how and when to take the second medicine.



3. You will need to follow up within two weeks. Follow-up is important to make sure your abortion is complete and that you are well. You will need an ultrasound or blood test.

This procudure is more safer, its private because its done at home, requires usually no anesthesia, and women feel its more normal because it feels more like a miscarruage then an surgical abortion.

Different Procedures To Have An Abortion

There are many types of getting an abortion depending of the weeks you are. These's procedures are Suction Aspiration, Dilation and Curettage, Dilation and Evacuation, Induction Abortion, Mifepristone and Misoprostol, and or Methotrexate & Misoprostol. All these types of abortion are done by different procedures.

Some of these procedures are exaplained below:

1. Suction Aspiration-a surgical abortion procedure used to terminate pregnancy between 6 to 12 weeks gestation. It is also referred to as suction curettage or vacuum aspiration. To begin this procedure your abortion provider may give you a pain medication and misprostrol in preparation of the procedure. You will lie on your back with your feet in stirrups and a speculum is inserted to open the vagina. A local anestheia is inserted to your cervix. Then a tenaculum is used to hold the cervix in place for the cervix to be dilated by cone shaped rods. When the cervix is wide enough a long plastic tube connected to a suction device, is inserted into the uterus to suction out the fetus and placenta. This procedure usually lasts 10-15 minutes.

2. Dilation and Curettage-Dilation and curettage is a surgical abortion procedure performed during the first 12 to 15 weeks gestation. Dilation and curettage is similar to suction aspiration with the introduction of a curette. A curette is a long, looped shaped knife that scrapes the lining, placenta and fetus away from the uterus. A cannula may be inserted for a final suctioning. This procedure usually lasts 10 minutes with a possible stay of 5 hours.