What a child means in life?

A child means alot in life and in this world and especially to the person giving it life. After those nine months of caring your baby you get the relief and happiness to give birth to your own baby. At first it will be hard because if it your first child you wouldn't know what to expect whether when to change the baby diaper, when it hungry, when its sick or when it has a rash.It gets so out of hands at the beginning because so much to handle and especially if you a single parent and don't have the support of your family. This will be a bumpy road at the beginning but having your little one by your side you wouldn't feel alone and would think all your problems are gone because just that little creature of life can bring much more then headaches but love, kindness, and affection to your world. It will be a life changing and turn around but why killed a living human whose heart is beating and who means much more then what you think. A child means basically because god created it and it was brought to this world for a purpose. A child means giving life to a new human being and a new member to the world who will have the opportunity to be someone in the future and reproduce in the near future.

Pro & Cons of giving birth instead of abortion

Getting pregnant and willing to keep your child is a big step. Its a hard decision to take but its way easier to keep your child then having to have an abortion. Getting an abortion is not an easy step or journey there's many risks and the biggest one is not being able to produce another child in the future because of your previous abortion. Having your mind to knowing you will keep your child is not an easy road but not a hard one. There's going to be doors closing but soon others will open. Having to give birth is something beautiful even though there's pros and cons. The pros of giving birth instead of getting an abortion are you are not emotionally or physically traumatize, you giving life to something beautiful, and less risk and complications when having an abortion. But it also has it cons like having to worry finding a baby sitter, being a single parent, financial status, and less going out with family and friends. But even though doors will close and wouldn't have as much fun as you would if you had an abortion you will have a child to filled those emptiness spaces that you have. A baby is a creation of god and created the same way you were and even though it wasn't planned or unwanted its better to take responsibility because it will pay in the long run. Abortion you go through an emotional and physical wreck and would always will stay marked for life. But having the pleasure to give give birth to a beautiful creation its a blessing and those pain of suffering you pay and healed way quicker then when having an abortion.

So, are you willing to go through abortion?

As coming to finalizing my final statements many of us still have thoughts on abortions or whether its the correct matter to take when having an unwanted pregnancy. Having an abortion later becomes an emotional roller coaster because you have anger, hate, and resentment against yourself having the guilt to kill a innocent living child. Despite all that there's risk and complications when going through the abortion procedure. Myself been in that position where I didn't looked at the consequences of my actions and killed an Innocent child. I didn't know nothing regarding what would be the risk or the complications of getting an abortion because I was so scared and trap in my own problem that I took a life away of a living human inside of me. I know see the wrong doing I did and going through an emotional roller coaster. I'm living day by day having the guilt and resentment of not standing up for the living life living inside me and not giving an opportunity to live. I personally would let young teens and even adults thinking about abortion to think twice because those are the worst time of your life where you see and feel a living human dieing minute by minute. I recommend taking in consideration adoption or even having the baby and raising because even though it wont be easy but it wont be to hard. If i had the support of a family and partner i wouldn't do what i did and think twice. But now I'm going to therapy to try to cure the emptiness and recommend this to many women who gone through what i have. Abortion is not an easy step is one of the hardest and scariest choices you would ever have to make. So if you don't want an unwanted pregnancy use "PROTECTION" and if your partner don't want to protect himself protect yourself.

How to prevent Unwanted Pregnacies & Abortions

There are many ways to prevent unwanted pregnancies and to this abortions. These unwanted child are being produced through careless people and unprotected sex. Many ways to prevent these hurtful situations are being abstinence, use of contraceptives, and latex condoms. These will help to prevent any unwanted pregnancies having so many babies being aborted but not only you prevent unwanted pregnancies but STD's. But the most safer way to prevent unwanted pregnancy and STD's is by using latex condoms. Many of our partners might not like the idea of using a condom because "it wont feel right" or "its very unconformable" but those are all lies. Its better to keep yourself and your partner safe then later on crying your regret. Having unprotected sex might be fun at the moment but stressful later on with the consequences of getting pregnant and cant raise a child at the moment. That's when abortion is the first thought to get out of this problem you in. But think if you have unprotected sex six times and out of those six times you have gotten pregnant and had an abortion it is not fair for all those lives your killing because they had no fault and they should have the opportunity to live the same way you did. If you don't want a child at the moment take precautions and keep in mind all the possible situations that can cause after your careless actions. Killing innocents babies because of unprotected sex is not fair for the life you are taking away because they have the same right to live like you did. Think about how will you feel if your mother got pregnant with you at a young age or couldn't afford you? But she choose to take responsibility of her actions.

What happens to the aborted baby?

Many people are aware that over a million babies a year are killed in the United States abortion clinics. And they don't know once a woman walks out from an abortion clinic, she leaves the unborn, dead body behind without knowing what the clinic do with it. Well the abortion clinic must dispose the dead body. Legally abortionist must treat aborted babies as medical waste. Others are put for experiment use, pieces are sold or burn. It is illegal for a doctor or nurse give care to an aborted baby. After the baby is within its five or six months and being abort it feels pain and since it fully grown just premature when taking out that alive baby is put aside without medical attention to die. So why commit abortion so close to giving life to a child, not knowing you are putting this child to suffer even when it two months but even more after three months. These innocent babies after being aborted are put to throw-away to disposal, burned or put to experimenting use. These unborn babies should have the right and opportunity to live and at least be born and then you have the option of putting it up for adoption or taking care of it yourself but now you don't feel resentment or guilt of having to kill a child who didn't have fault be thrown away after being taken out alive from there mother and being put aside to die on its own.

What led to to making abortion legalize in the United States?

As in the beginning of the blog abortion was legalize in the United States after Roe V Wade came to an end and made abortion freely and legal for anyone who is willing and want to have an abortion. If it wasn't for Roe v Wade then thousand of unborn child wouldn't die. Before Roe v Wade came to the Supreme Court it was illegal to get an abortion regarding the fact if you could raise a child or not. But after Roe won the case it became a woman free will to terminate a pregnancy at anytime they want. Many of these unwanted and unresponsible child who didn't have fault in an unwanted relationship thousands die everyday because of unresponsible people who take unprotected sex as a joke. All children should have the opportunity to live and not be thrown away because of careless mistake couples make. Getting an abortion becomes a hard part emotionally and physically for a women and a very hard step to take because either feeling afraid of something going wrong during the abortion procedure or being point at by society if found out you had an abortion. Getting an abortion becomes a long term curable act because your moral is down to the floor and many people giving there backs to you. Since Roe v Wade the abortion rate has gone up throughout the United States. Roe v Wade has made a big increase in abortions being perform each day throughout the United States so many innocent lives dieing each day because of this court case making abortion legalize.

Is there any other possible way instead of abortion?

Many women who experience unwanted pregnancy don't think and right away make the decision of getting an abortion. But instead of killing a living human growing inside you take in consideration Adoption. Many woman once they find out they are pregnant and don't want unwanted pregnancy the first word that come to mind is abortion and not thinking there's other way to save that babies life by putting it to adoption. If you cant take care of a baby or don't think you are not financial stable to raise a child the best way instead of killing it is giving it up for adoption so it can get the love and home it deserves by someone who really wants it. There's a difference between aborting and adoption. These are if you adopt you will be free to pursue your goals and dreams that you had before becoming pregnant, you will not have to carry with a baby before you are ready, you will not have the financial burden o0f caring for a child, you will not have to worry of finding a sitter or missing out on the fun with your family and friends. But if you abort there are many risks and complications and even though you wouldn't have to carry a child inside you womb for nine months its still a life you killed and many risks and complications you could have after having an abortion. So before saying "no" to adoption think about the life growing inside you that's living and the life you are taking away if you abort.